Probably any toilet you go to is a beat,” he said. “It’s pretty easy to find if you know where you are looking.
Max* informed me that finding straight men to hook up with is not that hard. It is not necessarily about sexual attraction to a gender, but sexual pleasure.įinding a gay man who has experience in this was not difficult at all. After investigating the issue and speaking to some of the men involved, I was surprised to find out that as well as some of these men being in the closet, there is also a population of guys out there who are hooking up with other guys just for the pure ease at which a hook up can occur. I’d heard of the term “men who have sex with men” (msm), but was confused as to why these straight men/gay men hook-ups were occurring so commonly, and what it was all about.Īre these men secretly gay and in hiding?Īs it turns out, not all of them are. It’s a subject that has always fascinated me because I have many gay friends who bed these so-called straight (and often married) men with excitement, enthusiasm and frequency. IF A man is sexual with another man, is he gay? You can kiss a girl and like it and be straight, but man on man sex is quickly put in the category of homosexuality.
